In life, at one point or another, and usually in one too many occasions we run into one of those super arrogant individuals who believe themselves to be God’s gift to humanity. Well, that is if we are not that super arrogant person ourselves, God forbids. But if that is the case then the clash becomes a lot more intense and unpleasant.
In order to easily bring these people down from their cloud of fancying being the greatest in the room, we must use our wits. Now, we must be prepared with very well trained and developed wits which will allow us to smoothly attack them and bring them to realize that they are indeed not the greatest person in the universe. We must be diligent in getting our wits extremely sharp to the point where we would just automatically come up with the brightest possible solution, response, pun, sarcastic line, rhetoric, joke, comeback etc. in such an impressive way that afterwards we can tell ourselves: “How the heck did I come up with that so fast, and on the spot? Wow that was so brilliant, I don’t even know how I made it happen.”
When we develop our wits to a very high level, and we keep ourselves very sharp, then occasions like the previous, in which we impress ourselves with our own ability, will occur very often. All the knowledge, wisdom, intelligence, and ability Just flows to your subconscious mind and then it simply becomes part of your nature, or second nature as some people would call it.
Always be kind to everybody, but if one of these super arrogant comes trying to take advantage of you destroy them with your wits. When you know you have worked hard enough and are prepared extremely well with your wits, then this not only adds the ability and skill to easily flow, but it also adds the confidence that you are so well prepared that it would be really hard to find someone who can come against you. When you know that you have worked harder than everybody else then you feel more relaxed and more comfortable than everybody else, because you know that they can’t mess with you.
Trust me, once you develop it, you will start to use it a lot. And it will bring a great feeling of satisfaction and power, because you will easily destroy those who want to take advantage of you, those who want to take advantage of your kindness.
Read tons, write tons, play mental games, imagine a thousand different situations and how you would respond to them. In your mind respond to those who talk to other people. Deeply analyze your past interactions, but don’t overthink nor regret anything, just learn. Imagine and create future interactions in which you win. Imagine and create interactions in which someone was trying to take advantage of you and you destroy them. Keep your mind sharp so that you remember what works for each type of occasion. Think critically, and think fast.
Do this time and again, consistently, and intensely and your future self will give you billions of thanks, and will plead for you to continue to develop yourself more and more. Until you are entirely free, until you are more confident than the king of the jungle, until you are unstoppable. And at last, you will tell those super arrogant in your mind : “Ha, you certainly don’t want to mess with the master.You don’t know who you are messing with. You are going to learn today.”